The holidays have arrived, and some of us may be feeling a range of emotions, and most likely, some level of stress, especially since we're still amid this global pandemic. I had the pleasure to be invited to present for the monthly Mito Expert Series a couple of weeks ago to discuss accessible ways to relieve stress during the holidays. MitoAction provides support, education, outreach, advocacy, and research support for those affected by mitochondrial disease.
During the presentation, I provided concrete tips to help cope with the stress of the holidays. It was so well received, I decided to write this blog as it may be helpful for others to manage stress during this chaotic time of year. At the end of this blog post, I've also provided links to my talk's audio and video recordings. I urge you to check it out as you might find new ways of reducing stress during the holidays.
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I went home empty-handed, beyond exhausted, and worried something serious might happen before I could see my doctor. I was shocked by how eerily similar the two events were. Medical gaslighting has been traumatizing and triggering and costing me a fortune in therapy.
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What I learned is that if you are trying your best then that is usually good enough. The problem isn’t you per se, but the other people. I was trying so hard that I realized I was trying way harder than other people and not getting good results. I was always supportive of people, so I would go to volleyball games to cheer them on or stay after school to help. I was always available if somebody needed help with their homework, someone to talk to, or any help they needed. When I needed their help, I experienced a lot of ghosting, and not being invited was difficult.
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Many chronically ill patients feel as if they should be grateful for their providers at all times, even after medical errors. Anger can tell us when a situation is unfair. It can motivate us to make positive changes to improve the healthcare system. This can be accomplished by self-advocating in-clinic appointments, coping with a new diagnosis, getting honest with providers, or navigating relationships, all while dealing with medical trauma. I hope you can join us at our next discussion group or give us a follow on Instagram: @pop_medicalptsd!
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Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten what you came in there for? Was it to grab something, or to do something… whatever it was, poof, it’s just gone, forgotten. It happens to all of us once in a while. Now, imagine this happening all day, and sometimes for days on end. Instead of random blips, it happens often and disrupts your life. Welcome to the elusive symptom known to most as brain fog. The inspiration for this blog is because it’s been my basic mode of operation the last month while being in a flare-up (sudden worsening of symptoms). It’s been cloudy with a chance of staring off into space. Thankfully the clouds are parting and I got clarity enough to write this post.
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